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How to help your child with reading comprehension at home

When they “read it” but can’t tell you what happened: the questions to ask before, during and after reading, by age.

Updated 6 min read By the AI Tutor Vault team, written with the help of an AI assistant

On this page
  1. What reading comprehension actually involves
  2. First, find the real problem
  3. Questions to ask before reading
  4. Questions to ask during reading
  5. Questions to ask after reading
  6. The retelling habit
  7. Helping with comprehension homework
  8. A weekly routine that builds comprehension
  9. Mistakes to avoid
  10. Frequently asked questions
  11. Next steps

Children who “read it” but can’t say what happened usually read the words without monitoring the meaning. You can build that habit at home with a few good questions before, during and after reading, regular retelling, and talking about what clues in the text tell us. Below are the questions to ask, how to tell what kind of problem your child has, and a simple weekly routine.

What reading comprehension actually involves

Understanding a text draws on several skills at once:

  • Decoding — reading the words accurately and fluently enough that attention is free for meaning.
  • Vocabulary — knowing what the words mean.
  • Background knowledge — knowing enough about the topic to make sense of it.
  • Monitoring — noticing when something doesn’t make sense and going back.
  • Inference — working out what isn’t said directly, from clues.
  • Summarising — picking out what matters.

When comprehension breaks down, it usually breaks at one of these. Finding which one tells you what to practise.

First, find the real problem

What you noticeLikely issueWhat helps
Reads slowly, stumbles, sounds out lots of wordsDecoding / fluencyReading aloud together, re-reading familiar texts; mention to the teacher
Reads smoothly but can’t retellMonitoring and summarisingStop-and-retell; “what just happened?”
Gets stuck on particular wordsVocabularyTalk about words; read widely; word games
Fine with stories, lost in non-fictionBackground knowledge, text structurePreview headings and pictures; talk about the topic first
Can recall facts but not answer “why” questionsInference“What makes you think that?” questions

A simple test: read a passage aloud to your child and ask the same questions. If they understand it when you read it, the bottleneck may be decoding or fluency, which is worth raising with the teacher.

Questions to ask before reading

Thirty seconds of preview gives the brain a frame to hang meaning on.

  • “Look at the title and pictures. What do you think this is about?”
  • “What do you already know about this?”
  • For non-fiction: “Look at the headings. What will we find out?”

Questions to ask during reading

Stop every page or two (or every section for older children). Short and light — this isn’t a test.

  • “What just happened?”
  • “What has changed since the start?”
  • “How do you think the character feels right now? What makes you think that?”
  • “What do you think will happen next?”
  • “Was there a word or a bit that didn’t make sense?”

Questions to ask after reading

Literal — facts stated in the text

  • “Who were the main characters? Where did it happen?”
  • “What was the problem, and how was it solved?”

Inferential — reading between the lines

  • “Why do you think she did that?”
  • “What clues tell you how he was feeling?”
  • “What does the writer want us to think about this character?”

Evaluative and personal

  • “Did you like the ending? Why or why not?”
  • “What would you have done?”
  • “Does this remind you of anything — another book, something in your life?”

The single most useful follow-up to any answer: “Which part of the text tells you that?” It turns opinion into evidence, which is exactly what school comprehension tasks reward.

The retelling habit

Retelling is the most powerful comprehension exercise there is, and it needs no materials. After a chapter or section, ask your child to tell you what happened. Simple structures help:

  • Beginning, middle, end for younger children.
  • Somebody–wanted–but–so–then for stories: “Somebody (the character) wanted (goal), but (problem), so (action), then (outcome).”
  • Main idea + three details for non-fiction.

Helping with comprehension homework

When the homework is a set of questions about a text:

  1. Read the questions first, so your child knows what to look for.
  2. For each question, ask “Where in the text might the answer be?” and let them find it.
  3. Encourage answers that use evidence: “I think… because the text says…”
  4. For “why” questions, accept reasonable inferences backed by a clue, even if different from yours.

Resist answering for them. Pointing at the right paragraph is enough help.

What to ask for: five spoken questions, one at a time — two about facts, two “how do you know” questions, one personal connection — and a short note to you on what to practise. Paste the passage rather than relying on the AI knowing the book.

The AI Tutor Vault’s Reading & Writing section includes a Comprehension Coach, a Vocabulary Builder, a Book Report Scaffold and a Spelling Sleuth. See the AI Tutor Vault.

A weekly routine that builds comprehension

  • Daily: 15–20 minutes of reading (shared for younger children), with one “what just happened?” stop.
  • Twice a week: a retell using one of the structures above.
  • Once a week: read something non-fiction together — a news article for children, a recipe, instructions — and ask what the main idea was.
  • Ongoing: talk about interesting words you meet, in books and in life.

Mistakes to avoid

  • Turning reading into a quiz every time. Keep some reading purely for pleasure.
  • Only asking literal questions. “What colour was the dog?” doesn’t build inference.
  • Accepting “I don’t know”. Shrink the question: “Was she happy or sad at that point? What makes you think so?”
  • Using summaries instead of reading. AI or online summaries skip the practice comprehension needs.

Frequently asked questions

How can I help my child remember what they read?

Stop regularly to retell, connect the text to what they already know, and talk about it afterwards. Explaining it to someone else is one of the best ways to remember.

My child reads well but understands little. Why?

Fluent reading doesn’t guarantee comprehension. Your child may not be monitoring meaning as they go. Stop-and-retell and “what just happened?” questions build that habit.

Should I let my child read below their level?

For pleasure, yes — easy reading builds fluency and enjoyment. For comprehension practice, a slightly challenging text with your support works well.

When should I worry about reading comprehension?

If difficulties persist despite regular practice, or decoding is a struggle, talk to the teacher. Schools can assess and offer support.

Next steps

Tonight, add one stop-and-retell to your child’s reading. This week, try the “which part of the text tells you that?” question. For writing about what they read, see how to help with essays, and for more questioning techniques, what to say when your child is stuck.